Our behaviors and habitual patterns shape how others perceive us and influence the image we project. This image is then mirrored back to us by others, relatives and strangers alike. Therefore, a repertoire of problematic or harmful behaviours leads to a mirrored negative image, which is typically internatised by the individual -affecting their sense-of-self. The opposite is also true, positive behaviour lead to a positive reflection.
It can be the case where regardless of one's behaviour, someone may project their own internal self-image onto this unfortunate individual leading to confusion and cognitive dissonance.
Therefore, it is very important that 'positive' behaviours and habits are encouraged, developed and mirrored appropriately, and 'negative' behaviours are tackled or navigated strategically & delicately - separating the individual from the behaviour.
Some behaviours may be as a consequence of a medical diagnosis, but many behaviours are often due to development delay in emotional intelligence.
Observing how the individual engages & reacts/responds during certain exercises, tasks, environments, social encounters, expectations, boundaries can provide the opportunity to support the individual become aware of their behaviours and create the platform to influence change.
